The Coach House opened in 1992 as a result of a shared vision held by Ursula Burton and Joyce Ferne. Their dream was for a place where everyone would feel welcome and accepted; a safe place for individuals in which to explore profound questions about God, life and themselves; a place in which to rest, be nurtured and restored.
Sadly, Ursula died in 1993 shortly after completing the conversion of the derelict coach house building, leaving Joyce to take the vision forward with the help of others. Ruth joined Joyce on the staff team in 2001, and together they helped make the Coach House dream a reality for countless individuals who have come through the doors over the years.
In 2012 the Coach House Kilmuir Trust (CHKT) purchased the derelict Steadings building nearby with a view to expanding the Coach House vision in the future. In 2014, the CHKT went into partnership with the Society of Retreat Conductors (SRC) and together they purchased the Coach House building. The SRC also became joint owners of the derelict Steadings building. Two trustees from the SRC are appointed onto the Coach House Board of trustees as part of the agreement between the two charities. CHKT looks forward to many years of close co-operation with our friends in the SRC.
This joint enterprise enabled us to bring forward ambitious plans to extend and refurbish the existing coach house building, with the newly “expanded Coach House” re-opening in June 2016. Sadly Joyce died at this time, and she was remembered both at the re-opening of the house in June and at a special memorial gathering in October 2016.
The work of the Coach House continues with Ruth at the helm in the role of Co-ordinator, Ian as Assistant Co-Ordinator, along with a small but growing team of staff and volunteers.
Who we are
The Core Team
Ruth was invited by Joyce to help her run the Coach House in 2001 and to move with her husband, Mike, into the nearby cottage. For 10 years prior to this she had worked as the Site Manager for a 12 chalet holiday park, whilst their 2 children were growing up. Ruth has trained in Ignatian Spiritual Accompaniment, in giving the Spiritual Exercises and in supervision for Pastoral workers & Spiritual Accompaniers. She is an ordained priest in the Scottish Episcopal Church.
Ruth was appointed Co-Ordinator following Joyce’s retirement in 2015.
The trustees are very pleased that Claire has accepted their invitation to become Assistant Co-Ordinator from January 2019, following Ian Bonner-Evan’s retirement from this post.
Claire has been closely involved with the Coach House for many years, including being on the team since 2016.
Claire trained as a spiritual director with the Epiphany Group and she has been accompanying people on their spiritual journeys for about 13 years. Claire regularly offers the Ignatian Spiritual Exercises. She took part in the Contemplative Supervision course at Loyola Hall and offers supervision. She has also been a tutor on the Growth in Prayer and Reflective Living Course. Claire loves cooking and enjoys bringing this ministry with her. Her home is in Edinburgh but she will continue to travel up to be residential at the Coach House on a regular basis.
Julie has been on the Coach House team since 2012, now offering administrative support and
spiritual accompaniment. She trained in spiritual accompaniment over 10 years ago through the
London Centre for Spiritual Direction, after having completed an MA in Christian Spirituality at
Heythrop College, London University. Her professional background is in careers guidance. Now
much of her time is spent actively involved in the Transition Movement with Transition Black Isle.
Ann has trained through the Epiphany Group in Ignatian Spiritual Accompaniment and giving the Spiritual Exercises. Living fairly close by on the Black Isle, Ann is able to be on the team providing retreats, quiet days and spiritual accompaniment at various times of the year.
After many years in a monastic community I trained in spiritual direction/accompaniment with the Jesuits at Loyola Hall, subsequently joining the Epiphany Group. On being asked to join the Coach House team I felt both challenged and quietly pleased. I still feel challenged yet also quietly pleased to be walking alongside others……following our longing hearts.
A note from the trustees: Ian Bonner-Evans stepped down from the post of Assistant Co-Ordinator last Autumn for pressing personal reasons. We thank him most warmly for his ministry here which was much appreciated by many guests. Michael Hickford, his spouse, has also retired from the team. They are both missed and we wish them every blessing on their next steps.
A Sufi prayer speaks of breaking open the heart so that room is made for Limitless Love. Within us all there is, surely, a yearning for such unconfined love. Paradoxically, there is often also a fear of something so real. It would be easier, safer, not to follow our heart-longing. But…..
Somehow that ‘but’ keeps drawing us and, as we follow this way of life and truth it is good to have company.
Our core team is enriched by the participation of volunteer members, who come and stay for varying lengths of time.
David Sutton, (Chairman), Ruth Flockhart, Richard Hayes, Janet Lake, Derek Maclean, Iain Macritchie, Philippa McCowen,
Janice Dolley, Dr. Iain McGilchrist, Charlie Miller, O.B.E., Neill Walker
Our GUIDING PRINCIPLES
Our founders, Ursula Burton and Joyce Ferne wrote this:
‘We wanted to create a homely environment enabling those who stay ‘to come home to themselves’
in the beauty and silence of this place’